Oral Sex (Fellatio)

Fellatio is defined as oral sex that is performed on a man but is mostly called "blowjobs" or "getting head".  There is no one set way that oral sex is performed.  You must experiment and communicate with your partner and keep in mind "practice makes perfect"  Ok, now we can here all the men out there saying, "yeah, practice, practice, practice"  Well guys, as we said before, communication is key and it should be fun and enjoyable for both partners.

Giving a Great Blowjob

Fellatio should involve more than just stimulation of the penis.  While the penis does have its extremely sensitive parts, a lot of the time, other parts of a man's body are overlooked.  For instance, while getting a blowjob, a man loves to have his scrotum and testes licked and fondled.  Taking his balls into your mouth and gently sucking, while stroking his penis, can put your man into orbit. 

The Sensitive Man

The most exciting and sensitive parts of a man's genitals are the back of the head of the penis, the line that runs down the middle of the testicles and the underside of the penis.  There is also a lot of talk about "deep throat" which involves taking the whole penis in your mouth.  There is a learning curve involved here.  You must learn to get past the "gag reflex" in your throat.  Many people have learned to control their gag reflex thus making them able to take in the whole penis.  While some men may love this feeling, other men may not even notice in the heat of things. 

Beyond the Genitals

Another sensitive part of the man's body is the "perineum" which is the area between the scrotum and the anus.  Rubbing the perineum vigorously just before the man cums can add even more excitement to his orgasm. 

Many men like having their anus massaged and played with while getting head.  You may even lubricate your finger and gently run you finger up his anus until you find his prostate.  Run your finger along the perineum on the inside of his anus until you find a bump about the size of a golf ball or bigger.  (it grows with age)  Many men are amazed at the sensation this brings about, a finger on his prostate, while at the same time getting head.

No No's of Fellatio

A blow job and teeth just don't mix.  The feeling of teeth on a man's penis is very uncomfortable and could also cause tearing of the skin.  The best way to accomplish the "no teeth blowjob"  is to practice wrapping your lips around your teeth.  Place your lips together with your teeth apart and try to suck them over your teeth.  Now open your mouth slowly, leaving your lips wrapped.  We can see you doing this as we speak.  How do we know you are already practicing?  We were doing the same thing while we were writing this.  LOL

Lubrication is also an important part of fellatio.  Most people use saliva to lubricate although the use of a flavored lube can make fellatio that much more fun and exciting.

Oral Sex Positions

There is no regimented positions for fellatio.  It is best to communicate with your partner as to how you would like to be positioned and what is the most comfortable for both you and him.  Part of the fun is just trying out different positions although we think you will find the 69 position by far the most exciting and enjoyable position.

Oh What a Feeling

Orgasm, the final frontier.  What about the semen?  To "swallow" or "not to swallow".  While most men like the thought of his partner swallowing, the partner may or may not think the same way.  Also semen may vary in taste with each man and his semen may taste different depending on his diet or even if he smokes.  If you decide not to swallow or just want to spit, you can get your partner to signal you when he is at the point of orgasm.  Be sure to keep stimulating him, even if it is with your hand gently stroking his penis.  And, guys, if you are signaling your partner because she doesn't like the taste, don't cheat, it may be a long time before she trusts your "so called signals" again. :-)

Also see our illustrated How to Give a Blowjob